10 Lesson learned

I have been married to the same man for almost 22 years now and in that 22 years, I do consider myself a professional (lol) so what have I learned in the 22 years of marriage? well, funny you asked. I have complied a list of the lessons learned.

1. Always put God first. No matter what.
2. Tell your husband everything.
3. Just in case your espn is not working, you need to communicate with hubby, guess what he can not read your mind, no matter how bad you want him to.
4. find a way to release anger. Personally moving furniture is my fav, it not only gets your house really clean, but allows you to take it out on a couch instead of his head.
5. Watch a game or sports show with him, he will think your the greatest thing since slice bread.
6 Let him know you need him, (even if you can do it by yourself, makes him feel better).
7. Talk about everything and get his opinion even if you don't like it.
8. Be honest about your feelings.
9. Let him hold you when you are upset or sad.
and No 10. Always stand by your man. Tammy Wynette had something there.

Now, don't get me wrong, there are days I want to take him and well, I will keep that to myself, but you know where I am going. Marriage is like a job, you have to work at it and you have to give 110% but in the end, hopefully you will have a wonderful person to spend the life on Earth with, and if your one of the lucky ones to have children from this man, you will enjoy watching them grow up and then can pass your wisdom onto them( now if they listen that is an entirely new blog) And if by some chance, like Ken and I we had the short lived life of a child that God took home and during that time we were able to draw strength from that and depend on each other and God and realized that with each other we can get through anything.