Wednesday, September 3, 2008

This crazy family of mine

OK, so most of you know that I have 5 wonderful sisters and I consider myself to be very lucky, but boy let me tell you we got some drama going on, now it is not important what is going on or who started it, or even who said what. I can tell you thought Jerry Springer here we come (lol) But the thing about my family is that we are a family and we have each other and no matter what is going on most of the time we still get along, and we are still there for each other. I think sometimes though we let things people said or did get in the way of family and that is sad. So I am not sure what the outcome of this family drama will bring. However, I am going to give my two cents worth, besides this is my blog and I can write what I want...:)
It has been over a year an a half since I was woke up in the middle of the night to find out that my son was not coming home. As a matter of fact it was 20 months to day. DO you think that I have thought one minute about a fight Kenny and I had or something he said pissed me off, or hurt my feelings, no way, none of that matters now. I can only now remember the good times and that is the important things in life, and I also know that Diane and Danny lost Michael not a month after Kenny, and I don't think they remember all the bad times with Mike and Anita his mom, while Mike was on this earth. I wonder what God thinks when his children fight, I know when Kenny and Ashley were little it would break my heart to see them argue and fight and especially Kenny he was my soft hearted one and he would get so upset that his sister was mad at him, allot of times Ashley did not even know he was so upset with her. So I wonder what God must think of us when we don't get along, most importantly when we don't get along over small stuff. My husband has two sisters and a brother that he has not seen in years, they don't speak because of family issues, Ken has no family other than my family, and let me tell you he would give his right arm to have a sister (one that he was raised with or not) or a brother to hang out with and go places with. Because even if my sisters don't want to admit it, we all are just alike and we all can make each other smile when we are having a bad day. Now, the problem with family drama, is some people can let it go and some can not, so for the ones that can, I think that is great, for the ones that can not, OK, listen up, we are family and we are here to make each other miserable and happy and sad that is what we do. So, be thankful we still have each other. That is the wise words from the baby black sheep of the family. I love my sisters ALL OF THEM and I am very thankful that they are here and if I needed them, they would come running. (they better anyway). If not, then when I do get up on my feet, I so am going to come and look for them. (I'm just saying)

1 comments:

Gina said...

Ok so you never read the story of Cain and Able ( jus kidding ) I really have only one burning qestion that I must have the answer to?
Is that slide show people we know?